I don't think Ianto had a particularly traumatic childhood. Or much trauma in general, before Torchwood. Possibly losing a grandparent through old age or something of that magnitude. Then again, possibly not. Because he somehow kept hold of the idea things would all work out if he did everything right. And it never seemed to occur to him the going wrong would be from someone he loved, rather than to them. To me, that says he didn't have abusive parents, because then he'd know that love and danger happens in the same place. And he probably hadn't lost a lover to death before her, though that one could go either way. 'Not again' could be a before and after thought. But mostly, he just seemed so sweet about doing everything possible, he semed to think it was the shiny kind of fairytale, wake her up again later. So I don't think it had gone wrong before.
Mostly, though... Does the woobie need more trauma?
I really don't think so.
Yes, he hurts pretty, but he's close enough to crazy as it is.
Also, the only fic I've read that mentioned suicide and self harm in contexts I could believe had the phrase "filed under S for stupid".
Because I figure if Ianto was going to, he would have by now.
Owen we've got canon for. I don't read much Owen fic. Does it portray him as suicidal / self destructive? Because that would be plenty in character, except he hasn't managed the getting dead part yet, so there's obviously some tension the other way in there.
Ianto just keeps doing his job. Maybe there's stuff under the suit... hell, no maybe about it, he's got plenty going on under there. But he's been as wrecked as can be, and he's still here. So.
Mostly, though... Does the woobie need more trauma?
I really don't think so.
Yes, he hurts pretty, but he's close enough to crazy as it is.
Also, the only fic I've read that mentioned suicide and self harm in contexts I could believe had the phrase "filed under S for stupid".
Because I figure if Ianto was going to, he would have by now.
Owen we've got canon for. I don't read much Owen fic. Does it portray him as suicidal / self destructive? Because that would be plenty in character, except he hasn't managed the getting dead part yet, so there's obviously some tension the other way in there.
Ianto just keeps doing his job. Maybe there's stuff under the suit... hell, no maybe about it, he's got plenty going on under there. But he's been as wrecked as can be, and he's still here. So.